Different Parents, Different Kids
Different types of parenting styles will bring up different kinds of kids. What kind of types of your parenting style are? Today let’s focus on the different types of developing kids together and its effects.
Your parenting style can influence everything, for instance your children weigh, their education, how they feel about themselves. More importantly, you should ensure that your parenting style is beneficial to their healthy growth and development. Due to the fact that the way you interact with your children and how you discipline themselves will affect their whole life.
Researchers have found four types of parenting styles:
Each types of parenting styles has their equal point and different from others. What’s more, they they takes the different approach to raising children and also can be identified by different characteristics.
Do some of these assignments sound like you?
- You think that children should be heard but seen.
- When it refers to rules, you believe it is “ my way or the highway”.
- You never consider your children’s feeling.
If you accord with these conditions, you might be an authoritarian parent. Authoritarian parents believe that their children must follow the rules.
When a child hesitate the questions and ask why, authoritarian parents will tell them “Because I said so”. They are not interested in negotiating and they just pay attention to on obedience.
They don’t allow their children to participate to the challenge about solving problems. Instead, they make the rules and enforce the result with little regard for a child’s views.
Authoritarian parents would not use discipline but punishments.
So, they won’t train their children to make a better choice but they’re invested in making kids feel sorry for their mistakes.
A number of children tend to follow rules who grow with strict authoritarian parents, however, their obedience comes at a price.
Kids of authoritarian parents have a higher risk while developing self-esteem problems, owing to the fact that their opinions aren’t valued. Because their parents are strict to them, they maybe become a good liar in an effort to avoid punishment.
If you are in accordance with these factors, you might be a authoritative parents.
- You spend a lot of effort to creating and maintaining a positive relationship with your children.
- You explain the reasons for your rules.
- You enforce your rules but take their feelings into consideration.
Authoritative parents pay time and energy on preventing behaviour problems before they start. They also use positive discipline strategies to enhance good behavior, such as praise and reward. These kinds of children tend to be happy and successful and they are good at make decisions and evaluate safety risks by themselves.
Researchers found that authoritative parents might become more responsible adults and are willing to express their opinions.
- You set rules but hardly enforce them.
- You seldom tell them the result.
- You believe that your child will learn better without your interference.
Permissive parents are patient and lenient. They often step in while in trouble and adopt an attitude of “ kids will be kids”. Permissive parents always play a role as friends to their children rather than parents. They usually encourage their children and to talk with them. But they usually do not pay too much attention to preventing them from making mistakes and wrong choices.
Growing with permissive parents, children are more likely to struggle in their learning. It is possible for them to exhibit more behavior problems because they do not obey the rules and authorities. They always lack of self-esteem and have a number of sadness.
They are also possible to have healthy problems as it is difficult for their parents to limit junk food intake. They are more likely to have dental cavities because they don’t force child good habits, such as brush teeth.
- Uninvolved Parenting
- You don’t ask your kids about school or homework.
- You barely know where your kids are and who they are with.
- You spend seldom time with your kids.
They have little knowledge of their children. There are less rules and they will not gain too much guidance, nurturing and attention. They spend little time to solve their children’s basic needs. At other times, uninvolved parents lack of knowledge about kids development. Sometimes, they are overwhelmed with other problems such as work, paying bills, housework and so forth.
A Word From Verywell
Sometimes parents should fit into several category. If you are a permissive parents sometimes, other times you should be more authoritative.
Researches suggest that authoritative parenting is the best one. But if you tend to identify with other parenting styles more , you can make measures to be a authoritative parents.
With dedication and commitment to being the best parents and also can keep a positive relationship with your kids. Meantime, you also can establish your authority in a healthy manner. As time goes by, your kids will gain benefits from your authoritative style.
How to Teach Kids About Industrialization
The world is changing and the industry is developing, the development of world is so fast that the new generation can not get the point of development of industry like steel pipes.
The new generation is growing, and they are new to this world, what they use is ready for them. With the development of science and technology, the industrialization is becoming more and more normal. Not only the machines which is used in the factories, but also the things which are in our daily life, both of them can show the industrialization is growing. The new and up-dated machines can bring more efficiency to the work in factories, and the small and normal stuffs like steel pipes can help us live a better life.
The point of industrialization is that we need let the kids which is also known as new generation of human being learn about it. If you want to do something better, you need to prepare the tool for it; before you learn something new, you need to know the meaning first. So, let’s begin.
What is Industrialization?
The industrialization is the process by which an economy is transformed from primarily agricultural to one based on the manufacturing of goods. Individual manual labor is often replaced by mechanized mass production, and craftsmen are replaced by assembly lines. That means farmer will no longer use their hands to do the agriculture work, what will take place in is the machine which can release farmers’ hands, and a lot of workers will lose their job because of assembly line.
Through History of Industrial Revolution
We all know some personal history, so we can use that to make the industrial revolution more human. You can help kids imagine that how to get beyond images of vast machines and disease-ridden slums, this kind of way can show how to do this with ordinary families’ personal histories. Many kids may see any period of the past as “the olden days”, which is bad for their education, and they will distant from their own lives.
The population revolution can go through just because of two activities on population movement during the industrial revolution. So the first industrial revolution could be an online history lesson, case studies of textile, coal mining and iron production will bring us back to that period which was between 1750 and 1850. This lesson will show how one invention or advance can lead to others. You need tell kids to use their own judgment when weighing up evidence such as first-hand witnesses, pictures, animations, maps and graphs written by people who lived at that time, which is much more important. All the trauma of the second industrial revolution which looks at the period 1850-1900 started to pay off, people’s life was improving through inventions as well as groundbreaking work in medicine and health, and that is amazing.
Through some basic methods
Here are seven styles of learning: visual, aural, verbal, physical, logical, social and solitary. Each of these styles can be used alone, and also they can be used together. Many people may think that teaching children is an honor thing which can be rewarding, however, there are a lot of people disagree, they think that it’s just plain stressful at times. Children are versatile, so there are a various of methods and techniques you can use to teach your kids. Before you find the way to teach them best, you need to learn first that what is your kids like and in what way they will be interested in to study, then choose teaching methods and techniques that are right for them.
So how to teach your kids is not a easy thing, in other words, you can call that it is the biggest and most difficult problem in this world. Kids are little and young, and they know little things about this world, so as the parents, the most important thing you should do after you have a kid is to learn how to teach them. Teaching your kids about the industrialization is one of the parts of your kid’s education, like steel pipes, if you do not use them for a long time, it will rust; in the same way, if you do not have the right way to teach your kids, they will become more and more stupid. For kids, the education of Industrial Revolution is a turning point of the whole education, after this, they will learn about the development of Internet and computer, which is as much important as the history learning. So if you have the right method, the passion and the heart of being good parents, teaching kids will no longer a problem.